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  • Chapter 3 of 3 | Meeting your companion: first conversation, 120 minutes and departure

    Chapter 3 of 3 | Meeting your companion: first conversation, 120 minutes and departure

    First-time adult services for women | A practical guide from inquiry to departure | 3 chapters
    CHAPTER 03 / 03

    Meeting your companion: first conversation, 120 minutes and departure

    What should you do when meeting your companion for the first time?We explain the day’s flow, from greetings through a standard 120-minute course, communicating your wishes and leaving the hotel.

    AT A GLANCE

    Start here: greetings and conversation are enough to begin

    You do not need to begin anything sexual as soon as your companion arrives.

    At OPUS, greetings and conversation help establish your preferences and how to spend the time. You do not have to prepare every topic or direct the entire conversation yourself.

    Even if you want to have sex or are interested in intimacy that masturbation alone does not provide, it can be hard to imagine a first meeting. Here we explain what happens after opening the hotel room door and how the time can end.

    POINT 01

    STEP 1 | What should you say when you open the door?

    “Good evening” or “It’s nice to meet you” is enough. You can begin with ordinary topics: finding the hotel, choosing a drink or the kind of mood you would like for the evening.

    OPUS’s standard 120-minute guide gives an example that begins with conversation to get to know each other. You do not need to explain detailed sexual preferences immediately. Saying “I’m a little nervous” is a natural part of that conversation too.

    Your first greeting“Good evening” or “Nice to meet you” is enough.
    If you run out of topicsStart with your day, interests or the atmosphere you would like.
    If you feel nervousYou can say, “This is my first time, so I’m a little nervous.”
    What remains undecidedYou can discuss it while checking how you feel on the day.
    A woman sitting opposite her male companion in a hotel room, with his face not clearly shown
    You don’t need to know just what to say at first.
    POINT 02

    STEP 2 | How can a standard 120 minutes unfold?

    OPUS’s “standard 120 minutes” is not a fixed program that everyone must follow in the same order. The official guide presents the following as one possible way to spend the time.

    1. Begin with conversation: Exchange greetings and chat about how you feel today.
    2. Discuss physical closeness: Check your wishes about holding hands, sitting together or considering a bath.
    3. Choose intimate time: Discuss available sensual services with your wishes and consent confirmed.
    4. Prepare to finish: Leave time for getting ready and saying goodbye as the end approaches.

    Wanting sex and the specific services OPUS can provide are different things. You can confirm the scope and availability of services before booking. If you have a particular wish about an activity or how to spend the time, ask clearly.

    POINT 03

    STEP 3 | If you cannot express your wishes or change your mind

    You can start with a simple preference: “Please guide me gently,” “I’d like to talk for a while,” or “I’d like to hold hands first and then decide.” You do not have to explain everything at the beginning.

    A sample message for sharing your wishes

    This is my first time, so I’d like to begin with a little conversation. Once I feel more comfortable, may we discuss how to continue?

    Your feelings may change during the meeting. You can say, “I’d like to stop here today” or “I’d like to go more slowly.” OPUS’s policy is to avoid intimate contact without consent and never treat silence as consent.

    If you become interested in something after meeting, you can also discuss it within the available services. It is possible to spend the whole time talking without using intimate services.

    POINT 04

    STEP 4 | The end time, saying goodbye and leaving the hotel

    For a first experience, the ending can feel as unfamiliar as the first conversation. OPUS’s standard 120-minute guide gives an example in which your companion lets you know the time is nearing its end and leaves time to get ready.

    Whether your companion leaves first or you leave the hotel together depends on the agreed arrangement and the hotel’s conditions. Follow the hotel’s rules on payment for the room, check-out time and re-entry.

    Afterwards, you do not have to make your next booking on the spot. OPUS’s privacy policy states that contact is not initiated without your permission. You can ask in advance about communication and records left on your device.

    A woman walking alone along a softly lit city street at night with a calm expression
    The long part was getting to that unfamiliar moment.
    POINT 05

    Frequently asked questions about meeting and departure

    Do I have to do anything as soon as we meet?

    No. You can start with greetings and conversation. OPUS checks your wishes and does not rush you into intimate time.

    Can I change my sexual preferences on the day?

    Yes. You can communicate changes or ask to stop at any time; silence is not treated as consent. The availability of a particular service still needs to be confirmed.

    How do I leave when the time is over?

    Get ready before the end and leave according to the hotel’s rules. You can also ask in advance how to say goodbye to your companion.

    PRIVATE CONCIERGE · OPUS TOKYO

    Start with the questions you have.

    There is no need to decide your first conversation or how to spend the time in a hurry.
    There is no need to rush. We will listen to your preferences and explain the practical steps.

    Ask OPUS before bookingFrequently asked questions

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  • 08 / 08 “This Is What I Want Right Now.” | 120 Minutes Chosen for Who I Am Today | OPUS

    08 / 08 “This Is What I Want Right Now.” | 120 Minutes Chosen for Who I Am Today | OPUS

    Enjoying Who I Am, Just as I Am. | An Eight-Chapter Series

    CHAPTER 08 / 08

    “This Is What I Want Right Now.”

    A woman in her 40s on her way to private time she has chosen for herself | This is what I want right now

    It does not have to be for any profound reason. You simply feel that this is what you want right now—and you can choose time for yourself based on that feeling.

    You do not need an impressive reason that you can explain to anyone else.

    Some women enjoy time that is entirely their own while still cherishing the life they share with a husband or partner.

    You may love living on your own, yet still have nights when you long for a man’s warmth.

    Your work, family life and friendships may all be fulfilling, while your body seeks a sense of excitement that exists entirely apart from them.

    Human feelings are never shaped by just one reason.

    Sexual desire, too, can quietly arise from within the body, independently of all the other ways in which life may feel fulfilling.

    “This is what I want right now.”

    When you feel that way, you can turn that feeling into time for yourself.

    At OPUS, we believe this is one of the ways an adult woman can enjoy her own life.

    Back then, you were who you were at that time.

    And here you are now, my lady, shaped by all the time and experience that have brought you to this moment.

    In the years ahead, there will be different versions of you, each drawn to different things at different times.

    That is precisely why the time that exists only now deserves to be cherished.

    Right now, I want someone to touch me gently.

    Right now, I want to be treated with care as a woman.

    Right now, I want to spend a little time away from everyday life.

    Right now, I want to spend time feeling fulfilled in body as well as mind.

    If you have a day when you feel this way, you can choose a few hours for yourself.

    It does not have to be about finding a lover.

    It does not have to be about changing your life.

    You can simply enjoy time that feels right for who you are now.

    That is the private time OPUS wishes to offer you.

    Before making a reservation, you can ask about anything you are unsure of.

    You can talk to us even if you are still working out how you feel.

    You can also consult us about the hotel.

    If going alone feels a little daunting, you can use the service together with a friend.

    Even after we meet, we will spend our time together while checking your feelings and pace every step of the way.

    These are a few hours that can rest gently alongside the life you already cherish.

    At every stage of life, there are pleasures that suit who you are at that time.

    Who you are now has pleasures that are just right for you now.

    “This is what I want right now.”

    On the day that feeling arises, we want OPUS to be a place you can choose with confidence.

    At OPUS, we treasure the opportunity to share those few hours with you.

    You Can Begin with How You Feel Right Now.

    Whether you come alone or with a friend, you are welcome to talk to us even if you have not yet decided to make a reservation.

    Talk to Us About How You FeelView Prices & How to Use the Service

    “Enjoying Who I Am, Just as I Am.” | All Eight Chapters

    1. I’m Not Lonely. But There Are Nights When I Want to Be Touched.
    2. The Person We Find Hardest to Understand Is Ourselves.
    3. Time Flows a Little Differently for Men and Women.
    4. What You Want Is Not Necessarily a Lover.
    5. Sexual Desire Alone Arrives in the Here and Now.
    6. The Body You Have Now Has Its Own Season.
    7. At Every Stage of Life, There Are Pleasures That Suit Who You Are.
    8. “This Is What I Want Right Now.”
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