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[CHAPTER 2] How to Choose a Cast Member for Women-Oriented Adult Services: When Reviewing Experience, Look at How He Engages with Women | OPUS

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Chapter 02

When reviewing his experience,
look at how he engages with women

Rather than comparing the titles and figures listed in each profile,
consider how he will bring his intelligence and life experience to the time he spends with you.

The background listed in a profile is also an important factor when making your choice.
Education. Career. Work. Experience. Hobbies. What kind of man is he, and what places and experiences have shaped his life? Learning these things may make you feel that you would have plenty to talk about, that he seems composed, or that you could enjoy an intelligent conversation with him.

At OPUS, we also consider intelligence and social experience important factors when choosing a cast member. However, displaying them as credentials is not quite the same as being able to use them for a woman’s benefit during the time you spend together.

Adult services offer a fleeting, make-believe romance. You are not searching for a marriage partner. Nor are you choosing a lifelong companion.
That being the case, rather than comparing only the figures and titles in a profile, it may be more meaningful in women-oriented adult services to consider how a man will use that experience during your brief time together.

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Intelligence and social experience as meaningful information

During your time together, a cast member’s experience reveals itself through thoughtful consideration such as the following.

When experience becomes comfort

  • What words does he choose when speaking to you?
  • Can he consider which topics will make conversation enjoyable for you?
  • Does he know when to relax his formal language slightly to create a sense of intimacy?
  • Can he sense how close he can come while keeping you comfortable—and when it is still better not to move closer?

Intelligence is not simply about knowing sophisticated words.
Nor is social experience merely about having an impressive career.

It is the ability to pay attention to the woman before him and create a level of closeness that feels right for her.
When you consider all of this, the experience listed in a profile becomes genuinely meaningful information for the first time.

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