[CHAPTER 5] How to Choose a Companion for Adult Services for Women: Choose Based on Whether You Like Who You Are with Him | OPUS

An intimate scene in a luxury love hotel: a Japanese woman wearing a champagne-beige silk camisole with the shoulder straps slipped down nestles deeply against a man whose shirt is open wide, smiling beside deep-green curtains.

Chapter 05

Ultimately,
choose based on whether you like who you are with him

Rather than asking whether he is the most impressive man, ask yourself, “Could I like myself a little more when I am with him?”
Notice how his voice and kindness change the way you feel.

When choosing a companion, there is one final thing we would like you to consider.
How attractive the man is matters, of course.

When speaking with a woman, there are moments when I sense, “Ah, she feels a little more at ease now.”
Her cheeks flush slightly. Her eyes, which had been darting around, settle on a single point. Her expression softens. Her smile becomes natural. Little by little, she begins to say more.

It is not words or titles but the man’s expression, kindness, gaze, pace of speech and “voice” that create that moment.

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The Mehrabian Rule and the Magic of the Voice (38% Auditory Information)

Here, think back to the Mehrabian Rule.
The largest element is “visual information,” at more than 50%. In second place is auditory information, at 38%.

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Visual Information (55%)

Photos and videos, overall appearance and the cleanliness of his clothing.

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Auditory Information (38%)

The tone of his voice, his gentle and reassuring way of speaking and the timing of his pauses.

In the context of adult services for women, this would be the man’s voice. 38%. That is a remarkably significant figure.

Not a forceful tone or a loud, brash voice, but a calm voice that never rushes you and speaks as gently as someone reading a picture book to a child.
Sometimes, the impression of a man that photographs could not fully convey becomes complete the moment you hear his voice.

An Emotional Response Beyond Specifications

“Ah, I think I would feel safe with him.”
“He is so much gentler than I expected.”
“Somehow, I feel as though I could let myself depend on him a little.”

Feelings like these cannot arise from a list of specifications alone. Adult services offer a fleeting experience of simulated romance. In the span of a long life, it is only a brief rendezvous.

That is precisely why, rather than asking only whether he is the most handsome or impressive man,
try choosing with this feeling in mind as well: “I think I could like myself a little more when I am with him.”

Appearance, intelligence and background all matter, of course. But when all of these qualities appear before you in one real, living man, how will your heart respond, Princess?
The true pleasure of adult services for women may begin at that very moment.