Enjoying Who I Am, Just as I Am Now. | 8 Chapters
CHAPTER 03 / 08
Time Passes a Little Differently for Men and Women.
Time passes at the same pace for men and women. Yet what each of us accumulates over the years can be slightly different.
Time passes in much the same way for men and women as they grow into adulthood.
However, society does not necessarily value the same things in each.
In Japanese society, men may rise to higher positions at work or see their income increase as they grow older.
They gain titles they did not have in their 20s.
They become more confident in their work.
Their income increases.
They become more relaxed in conversation.
They discover good places to go.
They learn about travel.
They learn how to relate to others.
Some men acquire professional credibility and experience in their 30s and 40s that they did not have when they were younger.
Of course, women also accumulate valuable qualities and experiences over time.
Professional experience.
Financial freedom.
Intelligence.
A personal sense of beauty.
The ability to judge character.
The ability to create a well-ordered life.
And an understanding of what truly feels comfortable and right for them.
Some women only discover aspects of themselves in their 30s and 40s that they never knew in their 20s.
That is why it feels slightly unnatural to measure the appeal of mature men and women by exactly the same standards used in their youth.
When we were younger, we may have been able to enter a relationship guided by nothing more than the feeling of being in love. As adults, things are a little different.
You want him to be well-groomed.
The way he speaks matters too.
You want intelligence.
You want him to treat women with grace and respect.
You want a man who makes you feel safe.
In intimate moments, you want him to be considerate rather than self-centred.
And above all, you do not want your life to be disrupted.
It is only natural that what you want becomes more specific as you gain experience.
It is also proof that you have lived through many seasons of life and gradually come to know yourself.
Time that feels right for the woman you are now.
At OPUS, we ask about your preferences and boundaries in advance.
All 8 Chapters
- I’m Not Lonely. But Some Nights, I Want to Be Touched.
- The Hardest Person to Understand Is Yourself.
- Time Passes a Little Differently for Men and Women.
- What You Want Is Not Necessarily a “Boyfriend.”
- Desire Alone Lives in the Here and Now.
- Your Body Has Its Own Season Now.
- Every Stage of Life Has Its Own Pleasures.
- “This Is What I Want Now.”