Why Does He Want Sex With Other Women but Not With Me? Why Men Seek Novelty Outside Everyday Life
The relationship may not be broken. You still talk and share a life. Yet sex has disappeared. This series looks at what may be happening on the male side without losing sight of the woman’s own feelings and choices.
Being drawn to someone is not the same as choosing a different life
A moment of attraction does not automatically mean wanting to build a new life with that person. Sexual novelty, attachment and life choices can be understood separately.
Why seek something outside everyday life?
Some people want a temporary space away from ordinary roles and routines. Seeking adult services or other non-routine experiences cannot always be reduced to disliking a current partner.
A moment of stimulation is not the same as abandoning your life
Wanting a brief experience of novelty does not necessarily mean wanting to leave a family or existing life. A woman’s value should not be measured solely through her partner’s behavior.
After understanding him, what about me?
Understanding more about the male side does not erase a woman’s loneliness or desire. The next question is about her own time: how long do I want to keep waiting?
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