Your first inquiry about adult services for women: contact, booking and privacy
Not sure how to contact an adult service for women for the first time?This guide takes you from your first message on LINE or WhatsApp through personal information, the details to confirm and a confirmed booking.
Start here: your first message can simply be a question
OPUS accepts inquiries without a commitment to book. You do not need to have chosen a companion, date, hotel or intimate preferences. Contacting OPUS and confirming a booking are separate stages.
You may be looking into adult services for women because you want to have sex or feel that masturbation does not fulfill your needs, yet still be unsure what to write. Here, we explain the steps from that first message to a confirmed booking.
STEP 1 | What should your first message say?
Start by letting us know that you are considering a booking and asking about anything unclear. There is no need to explain every preference to someone you have not yet met.
Hello. This would be my first time using an adult service for women. I’m considering a booking. May I ask a few questions about the booking process and choosing a hotel?
You can also be specific: “I’m considering an evening on [date]” or “Could you check [companion’s name]’s availability?” You do not have to decide to book before asking; the conversation can help you decide.
STEP 2 | Do you need to give your real name, phone number or address?
According to OPUS’s official guidance, you can use your LINE display name for inquiries and booking; you do not need to give OPUS your legal name, personal phone number or home address. Your LINE display name does not have to be your legal name. If you use WhatsApp, your account phone number may be visible to the recipient; this differs from supplying an additional phone number as a booking requirement.
A hotel’s guest registration or identity checks are separate from your inquiry to OPUS. Please check and follow the hotel’s own requirements.
It is also helpful to check the information left on your device or payment records, including message notifications, your lock screen, chat history and transaction statements. For OPUS’s confidentiality policy, see Safety, consent and privacy.
You do not need to describe your personal circumstances in detail in your first inquiry. Start with what you feel comfortable sharing, such as how you would like to spend your time or anything you would prefer to avoid.
STEP 3 | Four details to decide before booking
When you move from an inquiry to a booking, confirm these four details. They do not all need to be settled in your first message.
- Your companion: Choose the man you would like to meet, or ask for help deciding.
- Date and time: Share your preferred date and, if possible, an alternative.
- Duration: The standard and shortest course is 120 minutes; 180 and 240 minutes are also available.
- Location: Choose a hotel or meeting point, or begin by asking about hotel options.
For example, you can say: “I’m thinking of Saturday evening, for 120 minutes, at a love hotel in Tokyo, but I haven’t chosen the hotel yet.”
Confirm the price and booking conditions too. For international guests, the basic courses are ¥80,000 for 120 minutes, ¥140,000 for 180 minutes and ¥180,000 for 240 minutes. Hotel costs, transportation and other applicable expenses should be confirmed before booking.
STEP 4 | An inquiry and a confirmed booking are different stages
You may worry that sending a message immediately commits you to a booking. An inquiry alone does not confirm a reservation. OPUS checks the date, arrangements and costs; your booking is confirmed after you have checked the quoted total and completed advance payment.
Ask about payment methods during the consultation. Before deciding, confirm the service fee, transportation, hotel costs and any other necessary expenses or additional arrangements.
Wanting to have sex does not mean you need to write detailed intimate wishes in your first message. OPUS provides private companionship for women and available sensual services; the word “sex” does not mean every sexual act is promised. Ask in advance whether a particular request can be accommodated.
Frequently asked questions
I have not decided to book. Can I just ask questions?
Yes. OPUS’s official guidance allows inquiries without a commitment to book. You can decide after reviewing the information.
Do I need to provide my legal name or personal phone number?
OPUS states that these are not required for inquiries and bookings through LINE. Hotel requirements are separate. On WhatsApp, your account phone number may be visible to the recipient.
Do I have to describe my sexual preferences in detail in writing?
No. Share only what you feel comfortable discussing. If you have a specific request, you can ask whether it is available.
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