Tag: Time for Yourself

  • 07 / 08 — Every Stage of Life Has Its Own Pleasures. | Time for Yourself After 40 | OPUS

    07 / 08 — Every Stage of Life Has Its Own Pleasures. | Time for Yourself After 40 | OPUS

    Enjoying Who I Am, Just as I Am. | An Eight-Chapter Series

    CHAPTER 07 / 08

    Every stage of life has its own pleasures.

    A woman in her 40s preparing for an evening out just for herself | Every stage of life has its own pleasures

    Back then, you were the person you were at that time. And now, there are pleasures you can appreciate precisely because of who you are today.

    Back then, you were the person you were at that time.

    The evenings when your heart fluttered as you went to meet someone.

    The clothes you chose to feel just a little more sophisticated.

    The time you spent with someone special.

    The moments when another person’s gaze made you feel quietly delighted.

    The times you fell in love, were loved, and found yourself drawn to someone.

    All of it is part of the journey that has led to the woman you are today.

    And now, with the passing of the years, there are pleasures you could not yet have known back then.

    What you truly like.

    What kind of time feels comfortable to you.

    Which words move your heart.

    How you like to be touched.

    What you find beautiful, and with whom—and how—you wish to spend your time.

    With every experience, the contours of who you are become a little clearer.

    Life is always made up of many different stages.

    And each stage surely has its own way of being enjoyed.

    In your 20s, certain things moved you precisely because you were in your 20s.

    In your 30s, there were things you could understand only after reaching that decade.

    And in your 40s, there are pleasures you can savour precisely because of where you are now.

    A beauty different from that of your younger years.

    The composure that comes with experience.

    The freedom to spend your time and money on yourself.

    “This is the kind of time I love.”

    And the ability to honour your feelings more thoughtfully than before.

    Is that not another wonderful gift the passing years have brought you?

    Discover pleasures that suit who you are now.

    OPUS thoughtfully creates the kind of time you wish to choose for yourself today.

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  • 06 / 08 Your Body Has Its Own Season. | Sexual Desire and the Seasons of Life for Women in Their 40s | OPUS

    06 / 08 Your Body Has Its Own Season. | Sexual Desire and the Seasons of Life for Women in Their 40s | OPUS

    Enjoy Who I Am, Just as I Am. | All 8 Chapters

    CHAPTER 06 / 08

    Your Body Has Its Own Season.

    A woman in her 40s enjoying who she is in soft light | Your body has its own season

    The way your body feels has its own seasons—each unique to a particular time in your life.

    The body has seasons, too.

    A body in its 20s and a body in its 40s may gradually differ in how they feel and what they desire.

    And in your 50s or 60s, you may discover yet another version of yourself.

    The strength of sexual desire does not remain the same throughout life.

    The relationship between a woman’s age and sexual desire varies greatly from person to person. It cannot simply be said that every woman reaches her peak in her 40s.

    At the same time, some women become more clearly aware of their sexual desires from their late 30s into their 40s.

    You have gained experience and understand your body better than before.

    You are also beginning to understand what you want.

    There may be a little more room in your life as well.

    When several such circumstances come together,

    “I want to enjoy this because of who I am now.”

    That feeling may begin to emerge.

    What will you want in your 50s?

    What will move your heart when you are in your 60s?

    That will be for you, at that age, to decide.

    You may still want the same things you do now.

    Or you may be enjoying something completely different.

    This is not a fixed expense that you must continue paying every month.

    It could be once a month.

    Once every few months.

    Or once a year.

    “This is how I would like to spend my time right now.”

    Choose it on the day you feel that way.

    If the body has seasons, enjoy what can only be experienced in this particular season.

    Is that not a perfectly natural luxury for a grown woman?

    Time that suits the season you are in.

    Once a month, or at a more leisurely pace. The choice is yours.

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