When You Long for Fulfilment | 8 Chapters
CHAPTER 01 / 08
WOMEN’S SEXUALITY / YOUR CHOICE
Choosing to Satisfy Yourself
—Masturbation
We begin with the most immediate and freely available option.
This article cannot decide what is right for you.
What you are looking for, how much time you wish to give it, and what you want to protect.
Only you can know those things.
Rather than asking which choice is right, we will consider the kinds of experiences each option may offer.
The first of these eight chapters begins with a familiar option: fulfilling your desires on your own.
Choosing to Satisfy Yourself
This is the most immediate and freely available option.
It costs little or nothing, requires no meeting with anyone, and can begin and end entirely on your own terms.
Nor is it in any way unusual.
Many women naturally choose it as a way of spending time with their own bodies and sensations.
If you are accustomed to satisfying yourself, you may sometimes feel that it is all you need.
But if, at this moment, you find yourself longing for someone’s warmth, wanting to be held, or wanting to feel desired by another person, that does not mean your current choice is inadequate. It may simply mean that what you now seek lies somewhere slightly different.
There is nothing wrong with that.
