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  • Why Does Love Make Us Feel Lonely? | OPUS

    Why Does Love Make Us Feel Lonely? | OPUS

    OPUS EDITORIAL / COLUMN

    Why does love
    make us feel lonely?

    On love, validation and loneliness—the feelings happiness alone cannot explain. A story about a woman rediscovering the self she had forgotten.

    NEWS & VOICE OPUS COLUMN READING TIME 7 MIN.

    Why does love sometimes feel lonely?

    We tend to believe that falling in love
    makes us happy.

    Of course, that is not untrue. Yet for many women, love does not end with happiness alone. In an unguarded moment, it can bring an overwhelming loneliness with it.

    01

    Where does
    that loneliness come from?

    It is difficult to explain the reason in words.

    Are we lonely because we have fallen for someone? Are we lonely because we cannot see them? It does not seem quite that simple.

    Somewhere in the hearts of many women is a desire to feel validated.

    • To be praised.
    • To be treated with care.
    • To be seen as someone special.
    • To be needed.

    That is neither selfish nor extravagant.

    Perhaps it is an extension of the sense of security we all received so naturally as children.

    02

    From being protected
    to becoming the protector.

    To be protected by someone. To be told that you belong here.

    As we grow older, that warmth gradually fades away.

    Before she realises it, a woman is no longer the one being protected, but the one doing the protecting.

    For her children. For her family. For her partner or husband. At work and in her relationships, too, she is often expected to be mindful of everyone around her.

    There is beauty in that. But being beautiful does not make it any less exhausting.

    The more someone continues to support others,
    the fewer opportunities she has to be supported herself.

    ON CARE, LOVE AND LONELINESS

    03

    Are men to blame?

    It may be easy to reach that conclusion. But reality is more complicated.

    Many men are unaware of the subtle shifts in emotion that women experience.

    There is no ill intent. They simply do not notice.

    And so women hope, “I want him to understand without being told,” while men think, “I cannot understand unless you tell me.”

    That disconnect is not the responsibility of one person alone.

    Even when the emptiness within seems to have found an explanation, it quietly returns.

    It dissolves into the busyness of everyday life, until eventually she tells herself, “This is simply how it is.”

    Many women repeat this cycle.

    04

    You do not have to carry
    that emptiness for the rest of your life.

    Must that emptiness be something a woman carries for her entire life simply because she is a woman?

    I want to believe that it need not be.

    As it was in our youth.

    When the thought of seeing someone made your heart race, and you spent just a little longer getting ready in front of the mirror.

    There is no need to lose from your life the joy you once felt simply at being able to see someone.

    We cannot turn back time. But the moment when the heart begins to stir again can come at any age.

    05

    Rediscovering
    the self you had forgotten.

    • To be needed.
    • To be looked at.
    • To be treated as a woman.
    • To feel safe enough to let go.

    This is not an escape into the past.

    It is time to rediscover the self you had forgotten.

    06

    Not an escape from the everyday,
    but time to reclaim what has been lost.

    OPUS does not seek to offer an escape from everyday life itself.

    It offers time to rediscover the excitement and reassurance that have gradually faded from daily life.

    Not someone’s mother. Not someone’s wife. Not someone’s subordinate.

    To smile as a woman, to be desired as a woman, and to set your heart free as a woman.

    That time is never intended as an escape from reality.

    It is time that allows you to begin walking forward again tomorrow, true to yourself.

    Opus

    To nourish the heart
    and quietly rediscover the joy of being a woman.

    OPUS aspires to be a place where women can nourish their hearts and quietly rediscover the joy of being a woman.

    Explore the OPUS Experience Book or Enquire
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    WOMEN’S SEXUALITY / 02LONELINESS & HESITATIONLoneliness, hesitation and feelings that are hard to say
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  • [CHAPTER 2] Is It Unusual to Use Adult Services for Women in Your 40s? | What Kind of Women Use Adult Services for Women? (5 Chapters)

    [CHAPTER 2] Is It Unusual to Use Adult Services for Women in Your 40s? | What Kind of Women Use Adult Services for Women? (5 Chapters)

    What Kind of Women Use Adult Services for Women? | 5 Chapters

    CHAPTER 02 / 05

    Is It Unusual to Use Adult Services for Women in Your 40s?

    Is it unusual to become interested in adult services for women in your 40s? At OPUS, we primarily serve princesses in their 30s and 40s. What differs from our younger years may not be desire itself, but the “constraints” involved in fulfilling it.

    In our teens and 20s, school, university, the workplace and friends of friends naturally provide opportunities to meet men through our social circles.
    Men and women go for a drive together. They go camping. Snowboarding. To a hot spring.
    Some may remember a time when simply saying, “Let’s all get together next week,” was enough to bring everyone together.

    Yet in our 30s and 40s, our lives begin to branch in different directions.
    Work. Marriage. Raising children. Independence. A career change. Caring for family members. Each person becomes deeply immersed in her own life. Getting together is no longer as easy as it once was.

    I once came across an event called a “30th-Year Ceremony,” where people reunite ten years after their coming-of-age ceremony. It is an interesting idea, but bringing people together is not as easy as it was when they were 20. By the age of 30, perhaps everyone’s life has simply taken a very different path.

    But a change in circumstances does not make the capacity to fall for someone disappear.

    We still find a beautiful man attractive. We still feel happy when a kind man cherishes us. There are days when we want to be held. Days when we want to be seen as a woman.

    What changes is not desire, but the circumstances surrounding it.
    There is no time. There is work. There is family. There are things we want to protect.

    Perhaps our 30s and 40s are not decades in which desire disappears, but decades in which the constraints on fulfilling it freely increase.

    That is why OPUS does not look only at the sexual desire you feel that day.

    Lately, no one has seen you as a woman.
    You have not spent time solely for yourself.
    You have forgotten how to let yourself depend on someone.

    Half of it may be sexual desire. But the other half is the princess’s own story—the path that brought her here. At OPUS, we want to embrace both.

    Amid the constraints that come with adulthood, reclaim a story that belongs to you alone.
    The OPUS cast promises you an exceptional escort experience.

    Discover OPUS
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    WOMEN’S SEXUALITY / 01BODY & DESIREBody, desire and change
    START WITH THE PILLARIn Your 40s and Menopause: What Does It Really Mean to Feel Like Your Libido Has Increased? | CHAPTER 01: Women in Their 30s and 40s and the Thrill of AttractionBACK TO THE EDITORIAL HUBWOMEN'S SEXUALITY | Desire & Intimacy→
  • CHAPTER 4: Why Women May Want to Use Adult Services for Women Even When They Have a Boyfriend or Partner | Who Uses Adult Services for Women? (5-Chapter Series)

    CHAPTER 4: Why Women May Want to Use Adult Services for Women Even When They Have a Boyfriend or Partner | Who Uses Adult Services for Women? (5-Chapter Series)

    Who Uses Adult Services for Women? | 5-Chapter Series

    CHAPTER 04 / 05

    Why Women May Want to Use Adult Services for Women Even When They Have a Boyfriend or Partner

    You have a boyfriend. You have a partner. That does not mean you will never feel drawn to another man. Human emotions are rarely so simple.

    The qualities you seek in “a man to share your life with” do not have to match perfectly with the feelings behind “a man I would like to spend time with, just once.”

    When sharing a home, you may want someone stable and responsible, with a similar attitude towards money, a compatible daily rhythm and values close to your own. These qualities form the precious foundation you have built for your life.

    But feeling truly thrilled by someone is something else. You may admire him a little. Simply thinking about the next time you will meet can make the week ahead—and even the scenery around you—look slightly different. Those feelings belong to another part of life.

    When you see a beautiful man, you recognise his beauty. You may be drawn to a man you can rely on. You may feel delighted when a kind man escorts you. These sensations do not disappear the moment you enter a relationship.

    I once heard a woman who bought lottery tickets say, “I’m buying a dream.” She did not necessarily expect to win. Even so, she enjoyed the time spent imagining, “What if I did?” Perhaps the feeling is somewhat similar.

    You do not want to disrupt your everyday life. You simply want to step into another world for one night. To be seen as a woman. To fall in love, just a little. And then to return to your own life.

    Perhaps this, too, is a form of entertainment that adult women are entitled to enjoy.

    Step into another world for just one night, then return to the everyday life you cherish.
    We offer refined companionship and the thrill of genuine excitement.

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    WOMEN’S SEXUALITY / 03INTIMACY & RELATIONSHIPSIntimacy, relationships and distance
    START WITH THE PILLARSexless, but It Doesn’t Mean I Hate My Husband | [Chapter 2] Women in Their 30s and 40s and the Thrill of RomanceBACK TO THE EDITORIAL HUBWOMEN'S SEXUALITY | Desire & Intimacy→
  • 【Chapter 1】80,000 Yen Is Not a Fee for “What Was Done” | Why Pay This Price for Adult Services for Women?

    【Chapter 1】80,000 Yen Is Not a Fee for “What Was Done” | Why Pay This Price for Adult Services for Women?

    Why Pay This Price for Adult Services for Women? | All 5 Chapters

    CHAPTER 01 / 05

    80,000 Yen Is Not a Fee for “What Was Done”

    “80,000 Yen for 120 minutes.” Looking at the figures alone, it is perfectly natural to feel that the price is high. But what you are paying for is not simply an act or a block of time. Here, we explain the value of a story created for each individual woman.

    “80,000 Yen for 120 minutes.”
    Looking at the figures alone, it is natural to feel that the price is high.
    So what exactly is that 80,000 Yen paying for?

    If sex alone were the goal, there would be shorter, more practical ways to fulfil it. But human beings have feelings. You can be held in the same way by someone and feel nothing at all.

    Then there are those whose gaze alone makes you suddenly aware of them.
    Your first conversation. The moment you laugh together. A hand naturally extended towards you. The instant he looks at you as a woman. And then you find yourself thinking, “With this person, I might want to move a little closer.”

    The 80,000 Yen is not a fee for “what was done, and for how many minutes.”
    It is the price of a single story created for one Princess.

    Intimate time begins in that very moment. That is why OPUS does not sell conversation, escorting, physical touch and the intimacy beyond them as separate pieces.

    Two people who were strangers until yesterday talk, laugh and feel drawn to one another, closing the distance between them before they even realise it. For just 120 minutes, you may allow yourself to fall in love.

    A special interlude created for one Princess alone. That is the true value of the time OPUS provides.

    A story created just for you—not time sold by the minute.
    At OPUS. Would you like to experience an exceptional time?

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    WOMEN’S SEXUALITY / 06THE OPUS APPROACHWhy OPUS is an option
    START WITH THE PILLAR04 | What Adult Services Sell Is More Than Sex | OPUSBACK TO THE EDITORIAL HUBWOMEN'S SEXUALITY | Desire & Intimacy→
  • [Chapter 2] It’s Okay to Want to Be Held | Adult Services for Women Aren’t Just About Sex

    [Chapter 2] It’s Okay to Want to Be Held | Adult Services for Women Aren’t Just About Sex

    Adult Services for Women Aren’t Just About Sex | All 5 Chapters

    CHAPTER 02 / 05

    It’s Okay to Want to Be Held

    When we are tired, words are not always what we need. Wanting simply to relax beside someone and feel the warmth of their skin and the comfort of physical closeness is an entirely natural human emotion. It begins with accepting that small desire.

    You want to relax beside someone.
    You want someone to gently hold your hand.
    You want to be embraced without having to explain anything.
    You want to be seen as a woman and treated with care.
    These feelings are completely natural.

    The desire to be held can carry many emotions. You may want to feel safe, to be accepted, to feel protected, or to forget your loneliness. Through another person’s warmth, you may want to reassure yourself that you are here.

    What degree of closeness feels comfortable to you that day?
    That is all that matters.

    And sometimes, that physical closeness may awaken a desire to become even more intimate. That, too, is natural. The mind and body are not completely separate.

    Being looked at tenderly can make you aware of a desire you have kept hidden. Being held can make you want to be desired more intensely. On another day, simply feeling safe in someone’s arms may be enough.

    Neither is more right than the other. You do not need to think of wanting to be held as a childish wish. Wanting to lean on someone does not mean you are not independent. There is no reason why a woman capable of living on her own should not rest against someone’s chest.

    Some days you want to talk; on others, you long for warmth more than words.
    At OPUS, we will never rush you.

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    WOMEN’S SEXUALITY / 02LONELINESS & HESITATIONLoneliness, hesitation and feelings that are hard to say
    START WITH THE PILLARWhy Does Love Make Us Feel Lonely? | OPUSBACK TO THE EDITORIAL HUBWOMEN'S SEXUALITY | Desire & Intimacy→
  • [Chapter 3] Some Days, You Want Your Body as Well as Your Heart Fulfilled | Women-Oriented Adult Services Aren’t Just About Sex

    [Chapter 3] Some Days, You Want Your Body as Well as Your Heart Fulfilled | Women-Oriented Adult Services Aren’t Just About Sex

    Women-Oriented Adult Services Aren’t Just About Sex | 5 Chapters

    CHAPTER 03 / 05

    Some Days, You Want Your Body as Well as Your Heart Fulfilled

    Interest in women-oriented adult services is not always driven solely by a desire for conversation or relief from loneliness. Wanting your body as well as your heart to be deeply fulfilled is also a perfectly natural and beautiful feeling for an adult woman.

    Perhaps what you truly want is to share deep physical intimacy with someone.
    To feel desired as a woman.
    To experience with someone else what time alone cannot give you.
    Some women may find themselves longing for exactly that.

    Yet when you are actually face-to-face with a man, it can be difficult to express that desire openly. Will he think I am too demanding? Will he assume I am experienced? Is it improper for me to ask for what I want?

    There is nothing shameful about wanting your body to be fulfilled too.
    For an adult woman, it is a perfectly natural desire.

    You do not need to hide behind indifference because of such concerns. You may want to hold hands. To kiss. To be closer and feel the other person’s warmth. To feel intensely desired as a woman. These feelings are not separate from one another; together, they form a single intimate experience that begins with conversation and gradually deepens through touch.

    That is why it is perfectly acceptable to begin with a meal or to choose to meet at a hotel from the outset. What matters is not appearing reserved, but being honest with yourself about what you want that day.

    At OPUS, a woman will never be treated lightly for expressing her desires. On the contrary, sharing what you want allows us to approach the time you seek with even greater care and consideration.

    It is all right to have days when you want your body as well as your heart fulfilled.
    You decide how close you wish to be today. At OPUS.

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    WOMEN’S SEXUALITY / 01BODY & DESIREBody, desire and change
    START WITH THE PILLARIn Your 40s and Menopause: What Does It Really Mean to Feel Like Your Libido Has Increased? | CHAPTER 01: Women in Their 30s and 40s and the Thrill of AttractionBACK TO THE EDITORIAL HUBWOMEN'S SEXUALITY | Desire & Intimacy→
  • [5 Chapters | Chapter 3] On the Day, Just Send Your Room Number

    [5 Chapters | Chapter 3] On the Day, Just Send Your Room Number

    So Your First Day Feels Exciting, Not Anxious | 5 Chapters

    CHAPTER 03 / 05

    On the Day, Just Send Your Room Number

    There is no need for special preparation or to look absolutely perfect. The day is not about doing everything flawlessly, but about gradually letting go of everyday life.

    There are several ways to meet on the day.

    You can meet near the station or hotel and enter together. You can arrange to meet in the hotel lobby or a similar location. Or you can check in by yourself first and wait for the cast member in your room.

    You are welcome to choose whichever option makes you feel most at ease.

    However, if meeting someone for the first time in a busy place makes you nervous, the simplest option may be to enter the hotel first and wait in your room.

    After checking in, all you need to do is
    send your room number to the office.

    That completes the arrangements for your meeting. You can then relax in your room and wait for the cast member to arrive.

    If you feel restless, you may want to prepare a drink. You can play some music, turn on the television or sit on the bed. There is no need to worry about what you should be doing while you wait.

    It is also possible to meet at your home, although a hotel may feel more reassuring if privacy is your priority. Concerns about fragrance, your appearance or someone noticing something unusual after you return home are not trivial, so you are welcome to discuss them with us in advance.

    On the day, simply send your room number and wait. From that moment, allow yourself to gradually let go of everyday life.

    You can discuss any concerns or meeting arrangements for the day
    with us in advance via LINE.

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    WOMEN’S SEXUALITY / 05EXPERIENCE & SAFETYFirst experiences, safety and reassurance
    START WITH THE PILLAR01 | Are Adult Services Really Dangerous? | Understanding the Safety of Adult Services for Women in Three Parts | OPUSBACK TO THE EDITORIAL HUBWOMEN'S SEXUALITY | Desire & Intimacy→
  • [Chapter 1] Can I Use the Service Even If I Just Want Someone to Listen? | An Adult Service for Women That’s About More Than Sex

    [Chapter 1] Can I Use the Service Even If I Just Want Someone to Listen? | An Adult Service for Women That’s About More Than Sex

    An Adult Service for Women That’s About More Than Sex | 5 Chapters

    CHAPTER 01 / 05

    Can I Use the Service Even If I Just Want Someone to Listen?

    Many women are interested in adult services for women yet wonder, “Is that really a good enough reason to use one?” Perhaps you are not looking for anything in particular, but simply want to step away from everyday life and spend some quiet time with someone. That feeling alone is reason enough.

    You are not looking for anything in particular.
    You are simply a little tired.
    You want to talk about work.
    There are things about your marriage that you cannot tell anyone.
    You want to step away from everyday life and spend some quiet time with someone.

    Feelings like these are reason enough to use the service.

    OPUS is an adult service for women. That is precisely why your time with us can include physical intimacy if you choose. But using the service does not mean you need to decide anything in advance.

    The reassurance of sharing your true feelings in complete privacy.
    Time reserved entirely for you.

    Some days may be just for talking. Some may be just for sharing a meal. You may simply sit beside someone and spend a peaceful time together. There is no need to feel apologetic about paying for conversation alone. After all, the fee is not based on how many words you speak.

    You can be heard without interruption, without being rushed for an answer, and with someone’s full, thoughtful attention. You also have the freedom to choose whether to go further or not.

    The value lies in the experience as a whole. It is perfectly all right if you do not yet know what you want. Sometimes, talking with someone helps you recognise feelings that were already within you.

    Perhaps you simply wanted to talk. Perhaps you wanted to be treated with care. Perhaps you wanted to reconnect, even briefly, with yourself as a woman. You can discover the answer in your own time.

    You do not need to arrive having decided anything in advance.
    Let’s explore what feels right together, at your pace. At OPUS.

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    WOMEN’S SEXUALITY / 02LONELINESS & HESITATIONLoneliness, hesitation and feelings that are hard to say
    START WITH THE PILLARWhy Does Love Make Us Feel Lonely? | OPUSBACK TO THE EDITORIAL HUBWOMEN'S SEXUALITY | Desire & Intimacy→
  • [Five-Part Series | Chapter 5] Your Peace of Mind Continues Until You’re on Your Way Home

    [Five-Part Series | Chapter 5] Your Peace of Mind Continues Until You’re on Your Way Home

    So Your First Experience Feels Exciting, Not Anxious | Five Chapters

    CHAPTER 05 / 05

    Your Peace of Mind Continues Until You’re on Your Way Home

    Adult services for women are not limited to the time you spend together. The entire experience extends from your initial consultation through saying goodbye and returning safely to your daily life.

    As your time together draws to a close, you may begin to wonder how you should leave.

    Should you leave the hotel together? Should the cast member leave first? Or should you go first? Which option is right?

    There is no single correct answer. You may leave together or depart separately at different times. Please choose whichever option makes you feel most comfortable.

    If you are concerned about being seen, the cast member can leave first, allowing you to wait a little before leaving alone. On the other hand, if you feel uneasy about leaving by yourself, you can stay together for part of the way. You may decide how to leave in advance or change your plans according to the circumstances on the day.

    The hotel entrance is crowded.
    You have spotted someone who resembles an acquaintance.
    You can discuss the situation and decide what to do there and then.

    In such situations, there is no need to force yourself to follow the original plan. You can wait a little, adjust the timing, check for another exit, or change your plan from leaving together to departing separately. You can discuss the options with the cast member and decide what feels best at that moment.

    The cast member must also put your peace of mind first until the very end, rather than prioritising his own convenience.

    After you say goodbye, we will not continue contacting you against your wishes. Nor will we tell anyone that you used the service. Once your time together is over, you return to your everyday life. That is why it is important for the entire journey back to feel calm and reassuring.

    If you are unsure how to leave, please discuss it with the cast member there and then. Together, you will choose a way for you to leave feeling calm and comfortable. You will not be rushed, and your wishes will be respected until the very end.

    We protect your peace of mind from beginning to end.
    Enjoy an extraordinary moment that lets you set your heart free. At OPUS.

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    WOMEN’S SEXUALITY / 05EXPERIENCE & SAFETYFirst experiences, safety and reassurance
    START WITH THE PILLAR01 | Are Adult Services Really Dangerous? | Understanding the Safety of Adult Services for Women in Three Parts | OPUSBACK TO THE EDITORIAL HUBWOMEN'S SEXUALITY | Desire & Intimacy→
  • [Five Chapters | Chapter 4] The First 30 Minutes Are for Getting to Know You

    [Five Chapters | Chapter 4] The First 30 Minutes Are for Getting to Know You

    So Your First Time Feels Exciting, Not Anxious | Five Chapters

    CHAPTER 04 / 05

    The First 30 Minutes Are for Getting to Know You

    There is no need to begin anything immediately when your cast member arrives. The first part of your time together is for getting to know you.

    How would you like to spend today? What would you like him to do? Just as importantly, what would you prefer him not to do? Would you like to begin with a conversation? Would you rather spend a little time in silence? Or perhaps you are not yet sure yourself.

    Any answer is perfectly fine. You do not need to discuss anything you would rather keep private, nor do you have to answer every question.

    If you cannot decide anything yet,
    simply saying, “I’m still nervous,” is enough.

    You are also welcome to share things you would not normally tell anyone. Frustrations about work. Something you wanted to feel proud of. Dissatisfaction with someone. Feelings you have kept inside for a long time. A desire you felt slightly too embarrassed to reveal. Even during this time away from everyday life, you do not need to keep being the accommodating woman.

    Of course, talking will not resolve every concern, and your cast member cannot provide all the answers to your life.

    Even so, having someone listen to your story until the end—without interrupting or dismissing you—can sometimes make your heart feel a little lighter.

    As your conversation continues, you may gradually begin to understand why you came here today. Perhaps you wanted to be praised. Perhaps you wanted to be held and feel safe. Perhaps you wanted to be seen as a woman.

    It is perfectly fine if you cannot explain your reason from the beginning. You can discover together why you came here today. The first 30 minutes are time for you to gradually relax and let go.

    We offer time in which you never have to pretend.
    An experience that helps you reconnect with yourself.

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