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  • 06 / 08 Your Body Has Its Own Season. | Sexual Desire and the Seasons of Life for Women in Their 40s | OPUS

    06 / 08 Your Body Has Its Own Season. | Sexual Desire and the Seasons of Life for Women in Their 40s | OPUS

    Enjoy Who I Am, Just as I Am. | All 8 Chapters

    CHAPTER 06 / 08

    Your Body Has Its Own Season.

    A woman in her 40s enjoying who she is in soft light | Your body has its own season

    The way your body feels has its own seasons—each unique to a particular time in your life.

    The body has seasons, too.

    A body in its 20s and a body in its 40s may gradually differ in how they feel and what they desire.

    And in your 50s or 60s, you may discover yet another version of yourself.

    The strength of sexual desire does not remain the same throughout life.

    The relationship between a woman’s age and sexual desire varies greatly from person to person. It cannot simply be said that every woman reaches her peak in her 40s.

    At the same time, some women become more clearly aware of their sexual desires from their late 30s into their 40s.

    You have gained experience and understand your body better than before.

    You are also beginning to understand what you want.

    There may be a little more room in your life as well.

    When several such circumstances come together,

    “I want to enjoy this because of who I am now.”

    That feeling may begin to emerge.

    What will you want in your 50s?

    What will move your heart when you are in your 60s?

    That will be for you, at that age, to decide.

    You may still want the same things you do now.

    Or you may be enjoying something completely different.

    This is not a fixed expense that you must continue paying every month.

    It could be once a month.

    Once every few months.

    Or once a year.

    “This is how I would like to spend my time right now.”

    Choose it on the day you feel that way.

    If the body has seasons, enjoy what can only be experienced in this particular season.

    Is that not a perfectly natural luxury for a grown woman?

    Time that suits the season you are in.

    Once a month, or at a more leisurely pace. The choice is yours.

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    START WITH THE PILLARIn Your 40s and Menopause: What Does It Really Mean to Feel Like Your Libido Has Increased? | CHAPTER 01: Women in Their 30s and 40s and the Thrill of AttractionBACK TO THE EDITORIAL HUBWOMEN'S SEXUALITY | Desire & Intimacy→
  • 02 / 08 People find themselves hardest to understand. | Women in Their 40s and the Passage of Time | OPUS

    02 / 08 People find themselves hardest to understand. | Women in Their 40s and the Passage of Time | OPUS

    Enjoying who I am, as I am now. | 8 Chapters

    CHAPTER 02 / 08

    People find themselves hardest to understand.

    A woman in her 40s quietly looking at herself in the mirror | People find themselves hardest to understand

    Even as time passes quietly, the “me” within remains one continuous self.

    It is curious how the changes within ourselves are often the hardest to notice.

    Precisely because we look in the mirror every morning, it can be difficult to see the difference between yesterday and today.

    Age is much the same.

    From our 20s to our 30s.

    From our 30s to our 40s.

    Time passes quietly.

    Yet the “me” within does not suddenly become someone else one morning.

    When you were younger, men asked you out.

    They took you to dinner.

    You fell in love.

    Someone cherished you.

    You were treated as someone a little special.

    There were men who made time in their schedules for you.

    You may have memories like these.

    Just as you once naturally drew attention and were treated as someone a little special, women newly turning 22 are now having their turn.

    Time passes equally for everyone.

    Just as new flowers bloom when spring arrives, a new generation of women comes of age each year.

    And you, too, once had a spring like that.

    Every moment of being loved, laughing and feeling your heart flutter has become part of the woman you are today.

    Perhaps that is precisely why it is so difficult to see ourselves objectively.

    Within us, the person we were in our 20s, our 30s and our 40s continues as one unbroken “me.”

    Age is also the passage of time that gradually changes the scenery of our lives.

    And perhaps the pleasures that suit that scenery also change little by little.

    Time that feels right for who you are now.

    You can take your time and begin by sharing how you feel now.

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    1. I’m not lonely. But some nights, I want to be touched.
    2. People find themselves hardest to understand.
    3. Time passes a little differently for men and women.
    4. What you want is not necessarily a “boyfriend.”
    5. Desire alone always arrives in the “now.”
    6. The body you have now has its own season.
    7. Every stage of life has its own pleasures.
    8. “This is what I want now.”
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    WOMEN’S SEXUALITY / 02LONELINESS & HESITATIONLoneliness, hesitation and feelings that are hard to say
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  • [CHAPTER 2] Is It Unusual to Use Adult Services for Women in Your 40s? | What Kind of Women Use Adult Services for Women? (5 Chapters)

    [CHAPTER 2] Is It Unusual to Use Adult Services for Women in Your 40s? | What Kind of Women Use Adult Services for Women? (5 Chapters)

    What Kind of Women Use Adult Services for Women? | 5 Chapters

    CHAPTER 02 / 05

    Is It Unusual to Use Adult Services for Women in Your 40s?

    Is it unusual to become interested in adult services for women in your 40s? At OPUS, we primarily serve princesses in their 30s and 40s. What differs from our younger years may not be desire itself, but the “constraints” involved in fulfilling it.

    In our teens and 20s, school, university, the workplace and friends of friends naturally provide opportunities to meet men through our social circles.
    Men and women go for a drive together. They go camping. Snowboarding. To a hot spring.
    Some may remember a time when simply saying, “Let’s all get together next week,” was enough to bring everyone together.

    Yet in our 30s and 40s, our lives begin to branch in different directions.
    Work. Marriage. Raising children. Independence. A career change. Caring for family members. Each person becomes deeply immersed in her own life. Getting together is no longer as easy as it once was.

    I once came across an event called a “30th-Year Ceremony,” where people reunite ten years after their coming-of-age ceremony. It is an interesting idea, but bringing people together is not as easy as it was when they were 20. By the age of 30, perhaps everyone’s life has simply taken a very different path.

    But a change in circumstances does not make the capacity to fall for someone disappear.

    We still find a beautiful man attractive. We still feel happy when a kind man cherishes us. There are days when we want to be held. Days when we want to be seen as a woman.

    What changes is not desire, but the circumstances surrounding it.
    There is no time. There is work. There is family. There are things we want to protect.

    Perhaps our 30s and 40s are not decades in which desire disappears, but decades in which the constraints on fulfilling it freely increase.

    That is why OPUS does not look only at the sexual desire you feel that day.

    Lately, no one has seen you as a woman.
    You have not spent time solely for yourself.
    You have forgotten how to let yourself depend on someone.

    Half of it may be sexual desire. But the other half is the princess’s own story—the path that brought her here. At OPUS, we want to embrace both.

    Amid the constraints that come with adulthood, reclaim a story that belongs to you alone.
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    WOMEN’S SEXUALITY / 01BODY & DESIREBody, desire and change
    START WITH THE PILLARIn Your 40s and Menopause: What Does It Really Mean to Feel Like Your Libido Has Increased? | CHAPTER 01: Women in Their 30s and 40s and the Thrill of AttractionBACK TO THE EDITORIAL HUBWOMEN'S SEXUALITY | Desire & Intimacy→
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