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CHAPTER 06 / 08

Your Body Has Its Own Season.

A woman in her 40s enjoying who she is in soft light | Your body has its own season

The way your body feels has its own seasons—each unique to a particular time in your life.

The body has seasons, too.

A body in its 20s and a body in its 40s may gradually differ in how they feel and what they desire.

And in your 50s or 60s, you may discover yet another version of yourself.

The strength of sexual desire does not remain the same throughout life.

The relationship between a woman’s age and sexual desire varies greatly from person to person. It cannot simply be said that every woman reaches her peak in her 40s.

At the same time, some women become more clearly aware of their sexual desires from their late 30s into their 40s.

You have gained experience and understand your body better than before.

You are also beginning to understand what you want.

There may be a little more room in your life as well.

When several such circumstances come together,

“I want to enjoy this because of who I am now.”

That feeling may begin to emerge.

What will you want in your 50s?

What will move your heart when you are in your 60s?

That will be for you, at that age, to decide.

You may still want the same things you do now.

Or you may be enjoying something completely different.

This is not a fixed expense that you must continue paying every month.

It could be once a month.

Once every few months.

Or once a year.

“This is how I would like to spend my time right now.”

Choose it on the day you feel that way.

If the body has seasons, enjoy what can only be experienced in this particular season.

Is that not a perfectly natural luxury for a grown woman?

Time that suits the season you are in.

Once a month, or at a more leisurely pace. The choice is yours.

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