In our teens and 20s, school, university, the workplace and friends of friends naturally provide opportunities to meet men through our social circles.
Men and women go for a drive together. They go camping. Snowboarding. To a hot spring.
Some may remember a time when simply saying, “Let’s all get together next week,” was enough to bring everyone together.

Yet in our 30s and 40s, our lives begin to branch in different directions.
Work. Marriage. Raising children. Independence. A career change. Caring for family members. Each person becomes deeply immersed in her own life. Getting together is no longer as easy as it once was.

I once came across an event called a “30th-Year Ceremony,” where people reunite ten years after their coming-of-age ceremony. It is an interesting idea, but bringing people together is not as easy as it was when they were 20. By the age of 30, perhaps everyone’s life has simply taken a very different path.

But a change in circumstances does not make the capacity to fall for someone disappear.

We still find a beautiful man attractive. We still feel happy when a kind man cherishes us. There are days when we want to be held. Days when we want to be seen as a woman.

What changes is not desire, but the circumstances surrounding it.
There is no time. There is work. There is family. There are things we want to protect.

That is why OPUS does not look only at the sexual desire you feel that day.

Lately, no one has seen you as a woman.
You have not spent time solely for yourself.
You have forgotten how to let yourself depend on someone.

Half of it may be sexual desire. But the other half is the princess’s own story—the path that brought her here. At OPUS, we want to embrace both.