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  • [CHAPTER 5] How to Choose a Companion for Adult Services for Women: Choose Based on Whether You Like Who You Are with Him | OPUS

    [CHAPTER 5] How to Choose a Companion for Adult Services for Women: Choose Based on Whether You Like Who You Are with Him | OPUS

    Chapter 05

    Ultimately,
    choose based on whether you like who you are with him

    Rather than asking whether he is the most impressive man, ask yourself, “Could I like myself a little more when I am with him?”
    Notice how his voice and kindness change the way you feel.

    When choosing a companion, there is one final thing we would like you to consider.
    How attractive the man is matters, of course.

    But try shifting your perspective one step further and consider, “Who might I become when I am with this man?” This can be a surprisingly important factor in your decision.

    When speaking with a woman, there are moments when I sense, “Ah, she feels a little more at ease now.”
    Her cheeks flush slightly. Her eyes, which had been darting around, settle on a single point. Her expression softens. Her smile becomes natural. Little by little, she begins to say more.

    It is not words or titles but the man’s expression, kindness, gaze, pace of speech and “voice” that create that moment.

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    The Mehrabian Rule and the Magic of the Voice (38% Auditory Information)

    Here, think back to the Mehrabian Rule.
    The largest element is “visual information,” at more than 50%. In second place is auditory information, at 38%.

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    Visual Information (55%)

    Photos and videos, overall appearance and the cleanliness of his clothing.

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    Auditory Information (38%)

    The tone of his voice, his gentle and reassuring way of speaking and the timing of his pauses.

    In the context of adult services for women, this would be the man’s voice. 38%. That is a remarkably significant figure.

    Not a forceful tone or a loud, brash voice, but a calm voice that never rushes you and speaks as gently as someone reading a picture book to a child.
    Sometimes, the impression of a man that photographs could not fully convey becomes complete the moment you hear his voice.

    An Emotional Response Beyond Specifications

    • “Ah, I think I would feel safe with him.”
    • “He is so much gentler than I expected.”
    • “Somehow, I feel as though I could let myself depend on him a little.”

    Feelings like these cannot arise from a list of specifications alone. Adult services offer a fleeting experience of simulated romance. In the span of a long life, it is only a brief rendezvous.

    That is precisely why, rather than asking only whether he is the most handsome or impressive man,
    try choosing with this feeling in mind as well: “I think I could like myself a little more when I am with him.”

    Appearance, intelligence and background all matter, of course. But when all of these qualities appear before you in one real, living man, how will your heart respond, Princess?
    The true pleasure of adult services for women may begin at that very moment.

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  • In Your 40s and Menopause: What Does It Really Mean to Feel Like Your Libido Has Increased? | CHAPTER 01: Women in Their 30s and 40s and the Thrill of Attraction

    In Your 40s and Menopause: What Does It Really Mean to Feel Like Your Libido Has Increased? | CHAPTER 01: Women in Their 30s and 40s and the Thrill of Attraction

    Women in Their 30s and 40s and the “Thrill of Attraction” | What to Consider Before Choosing a Male Escort Service for Women

    Menopause. A sexless relationship. Wanting to be seen as a woman. Divorce or heartbreak. Weariness with romance itself.
    In your 30s and 40s, your feelings about relationships with men can become a little more complicated. You may not be able to say with certainty that you want romance. Nor do you necessarily want a new partner.
    And yet, you may still long for time in which you are cherished as a woman. This series explores what lies behind those feelings.

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    In Your 40s and Menopause: What Does It Really Mean to Feel Like Your Libido Has Increased?

    “Menopause increases your libido.”
    Some women may feel a little unsettled when they come across a statement like this and recognise something of themselves in it.

    Since entering your 40s, you may find yourself more aware of men than before. Sometimes you want to be touched. You may even surprise yourself with how much you long for that feeling of excitement.
    But I do not think all of this needs to be explained by the single word “libido.”

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    Why Do Feelings of Wanting a Man Become More Noticeable in Your 40s?

    Of course, it is meaningful to consider physical changes from a medical perspective. But hormones alone may not explain everything happening within your heart.

    Perhaps what you want is not simply to do something sexual with just anyone, but to be desired by a man. To be touched. To be seen as a woman.

    There are things you may once have received without giving them much thought. A man’s gaze. Being asked out. Talking at a distance close enough to feel a little nervous.
    Feeling your own femininity through another person’s response. Only when these experiences become less frequent might you realise how unexpectedly important they were to you.

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    What Has Changed Since Your 20s Is Not Just You, but the World Around You

    From your 30s into your 40s, time moves in only one direction. Your energy and appearance gradually change, as do your circumstances. And you are not the only one changing.

    More people are married. Some take on greater responsibility at work. Others are busy raising children. Opportunities to meet men naturally and be approached, as you once might have been, become less frequent.

    Yet your longing for the opposite sex does not necessarily fade at the same pace.This creates a curious gap in timing.

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    You Do Not Have to Give Up Enjoyment Because You Are “This Age”

    Because you are in your 40s. Because you are no longer young. Because it is too late for romance. Sometimes you impose an age limit on your own feelings in this way.

    But a male escort service for women is not a place to look for a marriage partner. It is rather like visiting a theme park or going on holiday: you would not tell yourself that you are now too old to dream.

    Enjoying that time and your age are separate matters. Do you feel like enjoying yourself that day? Perhaps that alone is enough of a standard.

    Perhaps what you want is not a man himself, but the sense of yourself as a woman that you experience when you are with one.

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  • [CHAPTER 3] How to Choose a Cast Member for Women’s Adult Services: The Power to Attract and the Ability to Stop | OPUS

    [CHAPTER 3] How to Choose a Cast Member for Women’s Adult Services: The Power to Attract and the Ability to Stop | OPUS

    Chapter 03

    The power to attract and the ability to stop.
    Look for both

    The allure of someone who takes the lead—the accelerator—and the kindness to understand your wishes and stop—the brakes.
    The steering wheel that determines where you go is always in your hands.

    One of the pleasures of women’s adult services is discovering what kind of experience a man can offer you.

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    The power to attract (accelerator)

    He boldly closes the distance between you. He makes your heart race. He creates the intimacy of being with a lover. He knows how to touch and escort you with ease.

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    The ability to stop (brakes)

    He never misses a sign that says “Wait a moment” and can immediately change the pace. Above all, he respects your wishes.

    Those qualities are unquestionably attractive. If we compare them to a car, they are a responsive engine and an accelerator that delivers smooth, exhilarating speed. Yet a good car needs one more essential feature: brakes.

    Brakes that respond to your wishes

    • “I’d like you to wait a moment.”
    • “I don’t want to go that far today.”
    • “A little more slowly.” “I like this, but I’m not so comfortable with that.”

    When a woman expresses a wish like this, he should be able to adjust the pace properly. This is not the opposite of knowing how to accelerate. Rather, it is what allows you to press the accelerator with confidence.

    And you are the one holding the steering wheel.
    Perhaps today you want to drive a little more boldly. Perhaps today you want to take your time and enjoy the scenery. Perhaps your mood changes along the way. All of that is perfectly fine.
    The accelerator responds well. The brakes respond well. But you decide the direction.

    With a man like that, you can relax and enjoy yourself more freely.
    In women’s adult services, a truly skilled cast member may be a man who has both the power to lead a woman forward and the ability to stop whenever she wishes.

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  • [CHAPTER 4] How to Choose a Cast Member for Women-Focused Adult Services: “I’m Not Sure Yet” Is Also a Valid Preference | OPUS

    [CHAPTER 4] How to Choose a Cast Member for Women-Focused Adult Services: “I’m Not Sure Yet” Is Also a Valid Preference | OPUS

    Chapter 04

    “I’m not sure yet” is also
    a perfectly valid preference

    You do not need to express your feelings perfectly from the very beginning.
    A wonderful experience can start with simply saying, “I’m not sure yet.”

    When using women-focused adult services for the first time, some women may not know how to answer straight away when asked, “What would you like me to do?”

    The complex feelings in your heart

    You may want to talk. To be held. To be treated tenderly. To enjoy intimate time together. To spend time as though you were a couple. But how much do you want each of those things? The truth is, you may not even know yet yourself.

    There is nothing unusual about that. After all, we cannot always put our feelings into precise words.

    Even at a hospital, it begins with statements such as, “My head hurts” or “My stomach hurts.”
    Why does it hurt? What is causing it? Patients cannot necessarily explain everything themselves from the outset. This is even more true of emotions, which cannot be seen.

    Women-focused adult services are not like ordering a product that arrives in a box. The time you spend together is the service itself. So it is perfectly fine to begin with something as simple as, “I think I’d like this,” “I’m probably in the mood for that,” or “I’m not very comfortable with this.”

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    A professional who understands signals beyond words

    Words are not the only form of communication. Your expression. The pace of your speech. The pause before you respond. Your reaction when he moves a little closer.

    He can sense how you feel from those signs and gradually adjust, thinking, “Perhaps this is the kind of time she wants right now.”
    With a man who can do that, you do not need to have the perfect answer prepared from the very beginning.

    “I’m not sure yet” is a perfectly valid place to begin that day.

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  • [CHAPTER 2] How to Choose a Cast Member for Women-Oriented Adult Services: When Reviewing Experience, Look at How He Engages with Women | OPUS

    [CHAPTER 2] How to Choose a Cast Member for Women-Oriented Adult Services: When Reviewing Experience, Look at How He Engages with Women | OPUS

    Chapter 02

    When reviewing his experience,
    look at how he engages with women

    Rather than comparing the titles and figures listed in each profile,
    consider how he will bring his intelligence and life experience to the time he spends with you.

    The background listed in a profile is also an important factor when making your choice.
    Education. Career. Work. Experience. Hobbies. What kind of man is he, and what places and experiences have shaped his life? Learning these things may make you feel that you would have plenty to talk about, that he seems composed, or that you could enjoy an intelligent conversation with him.

    At OPUS, we also consider intelligence and social experience important factors when choosing a cast member. However, displaying them as credentials is not quite the same as being able to use them for a woman’s benefit during the time you spend together.

    Adult services offer a fleeting, make-believe romance. You are not searching for a marriage partner. Nor are you choosing a lifelong companion.
    That being the case, rather than comparing only the figures and titles in a profile, it may be more meaningful in women-oriented adult services to consider how a man will use that experience during your brief time together.

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    Intelligence and social experience as meaningful information

    During your time together, a cast member’s experience reveals itself through thoughtful consideration such as the following.

    When experience becomes comfort

    • What words does he choose when speaking to you?
    • Can he consider which topics will make conversation enjoyable for you?
    • Does he know when to relax his formal language slightly to create a sense of intimacy?
    • Can he sense how close he can come while keeping you comfortable—and when it is still better not to move closer?

    Intelligence is not simply about knowing sophisticated words.
    Nor is social experience merely about having an impressive career.

    It is the ability to pay attention to the woman before him and create a level of closeness that feels right for her.
    When you consider all of this, the experience listed in a profile becomes genuinely meaningful information for the first time.

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  • [CHAPTER 1] How to Choose a Companion for Women-Oriented Adult Services: Looking Beyond the Photo | OPUS

    [CHAPTER 1] How to Choose a Companion for Women-Oriented Adult Services: Looking Beyond the Photo | OPUS

    Chapter 01

    Look Beyond the Photo
    and Imagine What Comes Next

    That first spark of “I would like to meet him” is worth cherishing.
    But women-oriented adult services also offer a sensual luxury beyond the screen—an experience for all five senses.

    With women-oriented adult services, you will usually begin by choosing a companion online.
    He is a man you have never met before.
    All you have at hand are his photos, videos, profile, background and writing.

    So it is perfectly natural to be drawn first to his appearance, or to find his intelligence and experience appealing after reading his profile.
    In fact, that first spark of “I would like to meet him” is worth cherishing.

    But women-oriented adult services offer something beyond that.
    There is the pleasure of choosing a man on a screen, and there is the pleasure of meeting him and spending time together. They may seem similar, but they are entirely different kinds of experience.

    And quite often, the final reason you decide whether you want to see him again is something that cannot be captured in a photograph or listed on a résumé. So today, rather than dismissing photos and profiles, I would like to invite you to look just a little further beyond them.

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    The Value of Attraction in a Photo—and Everything You Notice in Person

    Photos matter greatly when choosing a women-oriented adult service.

    Why Someone on a Screen Can Stir Your Heart

    • A face, body or style of dress that appeals to you
    • The sense of cleanliness and atmosphere conveyed through the screen
    • The honest instinct that says, “I would like this man to hold me”

    “I would like this man to hold me.”
    That is a very honest feeling, and a choice entirely in keeping with the nature of women-oriented adult services. OPUS does not regard appearance as unimportant. When a woman first opens a profile and feels her heart stir, even slightly, that feeling has meaning.

    But the moment you meet in person, a wealth of information that no photograph could reveal becomes available all at once.

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    What You Hear and See

    You hear his calm voice. He smiles gently in front of you. He listens to you with genuine attention.

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    His Manner and Consideration

    He matches your walking pace. He knows how to approach without crowding you, and notices when you are feeling a little nervous.

    What was one-way information in a photograph becomes an exchange between two people engaging all five senses the moment you meet.

    Adult services also naturally include moments when the physical distance between you grows smaller. You sit beside each other. You embrace. Your bodies draw close. Throughout that time, you are not looking directly at his face every moment. What stays with you may instead be his warmth, his voice, his scent or the way he touches you.

    So of course, you should value the attraction you feel from a photograph.
    And then take one more step and imagine, “How might I feel if I were sharing the same space with him?”

    That is when choosing a companion for women-oriented adult services becomes even more intriguing.

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  • [Chapter 4] How Does a 120-Minute Adult Service for Women Unfold? From Meeting to Leaving the Room | Complete Guide to What Happens on the Day (5 Chapters)

    [Chapter 4] How Does a 120-Minute Adult Service for Women Unfold? From Meeting to Leaving the Room | Complete Guide to What Happens on the Day (5 Chapters)

    Your First Adult Service for Women | Complete Guide to What Happens on the Day | 5 Chapters

    CHAPTER 04 / 05

    How Does a 120-Minute Adult Service for Women Unfold? From Meeting to Leaving the Room

    Your 120 minutes with OPUS begin after you meet at the hotel and sit down together. Your cast member will let you know when 10 minutes remain.

    You will never suddenly be told that time has run over without your knowledge and be charged an extension fee. If an extension is possible, we will always confirm that it is what you want, and OPUS operates on a full prepayment basis.

    There is therefore no need to watch the clock. Managing the time is your cast member’s responsibility.

    How you spend your 120 minutes is entirely up to you.

    Conversation can take up 0%, 50% or 100% of your time.

    However, requests such as “I hardly want to talk” or “I would like to spend the time in silence” can be difficult for your cast member to anticipate, so letting us know in advance will help everything go smoothly.

    If you have no particular preference, you might divide the time approximately equally between conversation and intimacy.

    But that is not a rule. At OPUS, the experience is fundamentally tailored to you.

    Perhaps today you want to talk at a leisurely pace. Perhaps you want to be pampered. Perhaps you hardly need any words at all.

    Simply follow what feels right for you that day. It is also perfectly fine if your feelings change along the way.

    “Actually, I would like to talk a little longer.” “I think this is enough for today.” Both are completely natural.

    120 minutes may sound like a long time, but it can feel surprisingly short when you spend it together. At the same time, there is no need to worry about what to do if you have time left over.

    Talking, holding one another and taking a short rest are all part of your time together.

    If 120 minutes does not feel like enough, an extension may also be possible. An extension is 60 minutes for 30,000 yen. However, an extension may not be available depending on the cast member’s next booking and other circumstances.

    Then, with 10 minutes remaining.

    There is no need for the experience to end in a way that suddenly pulls you back into reality.

    As you gradually get ready, the two of you can reflect on the time you have shared.

    The return from the extraordinary to everyday life is also part of your 120-minute story.

    To make your 120 minutes truly special and uniquely yours,
    tell us how you imagine spending your time.

    Learn About OPUS
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  • [CHAPTER 5] What Happens After Using an Adult Service for Women? Leaving the Room, Checking Out, and Staying in Touch | Complete Guide to the Day (5 Chapters)

    [CHAPTER 5] What Happens After Using an Adult Service for Women? Leaving the Room, Checking Out, and Staying in Touch | Complete Guide to the Day (5 Chapters)

    Your First Adult Service for Women | Complete Guide to the Day | 5 Chapters

    CHAPTER 05 / 05

    What Happens After Using an Adult Service for Women? Leaving the Room, Checking Out, and Staying in Touch

    When your time comes to an end, the cast member will not simply stand up the instant the clock changes and leave without a word.

    In most cases, as the end of the booking approaches, you will both gradually get ready and ease naturally into the moment of saying goodbye.

    You may embrace, reluctant to part. You might promise to meet again with the words, “See you again.”

    There is no need to return abruptly to reality. OPUS believes that even the final few minutes should be a time of genuine connection with you, our princess.

    However, sexual services cannot continue once the scheduled end time has passed.

    There is no need to rush while getting ready, either. The exact timing may vary slightly. Even so, you will not be charged an extension fee without your agreement.

    There is no rule about whether the man or woman should leave the room first. Sometimes the cast member will leave first; at other times, you may leave the hotel together. We choose the most natural approach based on the hotel, the circumstances that day, and your privacy.

    As the hotel booking is a contract between you and the hotel, OPUS cannot pay the hotel fee. However, if you encounter a problem with the hotel, the cast member will not simply say, “Our time is over, so it is no longer my concern,” and leave you behind.

    Not leaving you alone is also part of the escort experience.

    Before leaving, it is a good idea to check that you have not forgotten anything, such as your smartphone, wallet, or jewellery.

    After the cast member has left, you may wish to stay at the hotel and rest for a while. You do not need to return to everyday life immediately. If the feeling lingers, that lingering moment belongs to you as well.

    As for LINE messages after your booking, OPUS does not envision a relationship in which you must continue receiving more sales messages than you want.

    Nor is it impolite if you do not request the same cast member again simply because you have used the service once.

    Once is fine. A month later is fine. Six months later is fine.

    Or you can simply open LINE on the day you feel you would like to meet again.

    OPUS does not want a relationship that restricts you.

    We want to offer a time you will occasionally wish to remember as you each return to your everyday lives—and a relationship that lets you meet again whenever you wish.

    We believe that this degree of distance is just right for an adult woman.

    Close enough to offer comfort, without intruding on your everyday life.
    OPUS’s special escort experience is always available through LINE.

    Learn About OPUS
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  • CHAPTER 2: Do You Enter the Hotel Alone When Using a Women’s Sensual Service? From Meeting Up to Sharing Your Room Number | Complete Guide to the Day (5 Chapters)

    CHAPTER 2: Do You Enter the Hotel Alone When Using a Women’s Sensual Service? From Meeting Up to Sharing Your Room Number | Complete Guide to the Day (5 Chapters)

    Your First Women’s Sensual Service Experience | Complete Guide to the Day | 5 Chapters

    CHAPTER 02 / 05

    Do You Enter the Hotel Alone When Using a Women’s Sensual Service? From Meeting Up to Sharing Your Room Number

    When using a women’s sensual service for the first time, one detail that can be surprisingly unclear is where you will meet the man on the day.

    At OPUS, you will generally enter the hotel first, and the cast member will join you afterwards.

    If you are using a business hotel or city hotel, please check in yourself, enter your room, and then send us the hotel name and room number via LINE.

    The process is essentially the same at a love hotel.

    Simply enter the room first and send us one message: “○○ Hotel, Room ■■.” That is all we need.

    If it is your first time at the hotel, you may be unsure how the system works or which room to choose. If so, you are welcome to ask us on LINE before entering.

    You can also arrange to meet the man in the lobby, but some hotels restrict access for anyone who is not a registered guest. For privacy reasons, it is often more natural for you to enter the room first and for the cast member to join you afterwards.

    The cast member will travel to the hotel in time for your reservation.

    So, there is no need to worry if you arrive a little early. Conversely, if checking in looks likely to take some time, simply let us know with a brief message on LINE.

    “I haven’t been able to enter the room yet.” That is all you need to say.

    At OPUS, we do not want you rushing around the hotel lobby or feeling anxious about your arrival time.

    What matters is giving yourself the space to shift your thoughts towards the time that is about to begin.

    Once you are in the room, you can have some water. You can touch up your make-up. You can sit on the bed for a moment.

    If you feel nervous, it is perfectly fine to remain nervous.

    When it is your first time, waiting alone in a hotel room for a man to arrive may feel a little unusual.

    But even those few minutes are part of the escape from everyday life.

    Before long, the doorbell will ring. Only then does your time together begin.

    We will provide detailed support via LINE when it is time to meet on the day.
    Relax and enjoy a moment away from the everyday.

    Learn About OPUS
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  • [Chapter 3] What Happens When Your Male Companion Arrives at the Hotel? The First 30 Minutes After You Open the Door | Complete Guide to the Day (5 Chapters)

    [Chapter 3] What Happens When Your Male Companion Arrives at the Hotel? The First 30 Minutes After You Open the Door | Complete Guide to the Day (5 Chapters)

    Your First Adult Service for Women | Complete Guide to the Day | 5 Chapters

    CHAPTER 03 / 05

    What Happens When Your Male Companion Arrives at the Hotel? The First 30 Minutes After You Open the Door

    For many women, the moment the doorbell rings may be the most nerve-racking. But opening the door does not mean you suddenly have to do anything special.

    Simply begin with a normal “Hello” or “Good evening.” That is all it takes.

    You are meeting for the first time, so it is only natural to feel nervous. Your companion understands that too.

    He will come into the room and put down his belongings, and you will sit together for a while. You might talk over a drink and go over the preferences you shared when booking. That is usually how it begins.

    “It is my first time, so I am not even sure what I want to do.”

    If that is how you feel, please say so just as you are. In fact, that is the clearest request you can make.

    OPUS does not expect you to arrive with a perfectly prepared list of requests.

    Once you have been held, you may find yourself wanting to move closer. Or as you talk, you may decide that conversation alone is enough for today.

    It is entirely natural for your feelings to change between before and after you meet.

    Please feel free to say if there is anything you are uncomfortable with or do not want him to do.

    “Please do not touch me there.” “I would like to stop here today.” That is enough.

    If you feel too embarrassed to say it aloud, you can also let us know beforehand via LINE.

    That is why OPUS does not rush the first 30 minutes.

    Just because this is an adult service does not mean you have to head straight towards a predetermined destination from the very beginning.

    There is an atmosphere between the two of you that comes into being for the first time that day.

    You talk, share a small laugh, begin to feel at ease, and only then gradually move closer.

    Creating the story together.
    At OPUS, it is this order that matters.

    We value a calm, unhurried time that allows your nerves to ease.
    Would you like to experience a special first meeting with one of our companions?

    Learn About OPUS
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